Jillian

wow I need to get on this more often...

2011-11-28T11:27:00.001-08:00

wow so many things!!!! Holy crap! Ok so as you all know from my last post you all know I'm getting married. We had the place booked and everything planned out, then we got a call saying the location was red tagged and we no longer had a wedding location... ya I cried but it worked for the better bc the place we are now having it at was cheaper than the first one, and more of what I had in mind! I'm so excited!!!!! Less than 6 months to go!!!! Sooooo much to do! I will try to get on here more often and update on the goings on n my life, because there is never a dull moment!!!!!

exciting happenings!

2011-08-17T11:33:00.000-07:00

So I'm getting married!!!!! Ya u all probably already knew that but I don't care, I had to say it! Its so exciting and I have so many ideas!!!!!!! Oh it seems like its all coming together!!!!! westinandjillian.ourwedding.com is our official website! Its none too exciting yet bc we haven't registered anywhere but the about us is written from the other perspective so its kinda fun! I will hopefully post more soon but I doubt it =)

our wedding website!!!!!

2011-06-11T17:51:00.000-07:00

westinandjillian.ourwedding.com

2010-03-24T23:23:00.000-07:00

So life is very interesting sometimes. And things happen I believe not only to test you but to make u stronger. I have been going through 2 weeks of hopefully getting stronger. I guess only time will tell. Lies r said, friendships are broken, and lines are crossed that should never be crossed. But I guess it is all for the better... It will be interesting to see what comes next, and how much more I can handle, but considering I'm still here and dealing, I think with God, I'm doing pretty well...

weird

2010-02-08T00:22:00.000-08:00

so have u ever felt like a loser and like ur life is going no where? Thats where I am right now and whats sad is I know its not true, and its just a lie put n my head by satan but that doesn't mean that sometimes I don't let it get to me. Because sometimes we all do let stuff get to us. And it seems like increasingly more I feel like this and it just puts me n a funk and I don't like it!!!!!!!! So prayers would b awesome and God and I will try to hash this out... =)

December

2009-12-07T22:36:00.000-08:00

As Christmas draws near and the year is rapidly coming to a close, it gets a person wondering about the future, and what is to come next. My best friend is getting married in a little over 7 months, I am so beyond excited for her and I can't wait for it, but it makes me reflect on my own life. Isn't it funny how you can everything planned out and one day it all changes and you no longer have any plans. And I am faced with the dilemma of what if I make a wrong choice? I feel like I'm at a point n my life where if I make a decision and its wrong I could screw up my whole life? And then also life is full of choices and how do you know until you make one if its right or wrong? I guess what I'm saying is I don't really know what to do, or where I should go from here, and to be honest, it scares the crap out of me...

2009-11-19T01:26:00.000-08:00

Wow do I need to update this thing on a regular basis! hahaha ok so update... still no job and to be honest I think I am just scared to really try... I know it sounds weird but I don't wanna be rejected u know? But I am really gonna get on that. I'm trying! Prayers would be awesome! Oh and my grand parents r coming to stay at my house n like 2 days and my room is no where near ready so I will b cleaning for 2 days straight, again prayers would b awesome! I guess I just need prayer for strength, confidence, and grace because I think we all need a healthy dose of those every day!

guys

2009-08-17T15:31:00.001-07:00

I was thinking today about stuff thats been happening to me and things that have been said to me, and I got to thinking, what makes guys think they can disrespect and talk to and treat women like they are objects? When did it become ok for a guy to call a woman a bitch because she won't dance with him or date him? It is every persons prerogative to choose who they want to date, or heck even talk to. Does that make a woman a bitch because she doesn't want to talk to you? No it doesn't. It just means that she doesn't want to talk to you, get over it and move on. Don't degrade and disrespect her because you got your feelings hurt. It happens deal and move on.

Ok wow its already August!

2009-08-12T17:14:00.000-07:00

hahaha apparently I'm horrible at this whole blogging thing... I'm gonna try to be better I promise! Ok so let me see whats happened in the past few months... uuummmmmm I dated a guy who turned out to be an a-hole... big surprise there! hahaha oh my best friend is getting married in a year and I have been helping her with wedding planning which is so much fun! She bought her dress, has her caterer, and location! I'm sooo beyond excited for her! Still dealing with the male harem, as my friends have come to call it. The following of guys that I have, still haven't found the one yet. I figure I'm only 22 I have a long life ahead of me and I am still focusing on me and God so I really don't need a guy at the moment. It would be nice sometimes tho... I'm not lonely I'm just trying to deal with the being alone thing, u know? Some days are better than others but when u have people telling u that u are never gonna find anyone, thats when the hard days come. Trust me, I know I'm young and I know I have plenty of time to find one, and I'm not gonna settloe for just anyone... I want the perfect guy for me, and I know those people are just being stupid and are unhappy in their lives and I just pray for them, because theres nothing else I can do! :) Today is a good day though, I had lunch with the said engaged friend, and we went to Target, which is always a good day in my book!

Ok so so far this summer I have lost my job and trying to find a new one, but it has given me ample time to catch up with friends and to try to destress but I tell you sometimes its more stressful than not. I got to go to a friends beach house in Newport and I'm able to go line dancing a lot which I love! Its my favorite thing to do, plus its a fun way to workout. I've been trying to workout more which I have been so I feel better. Plus my birthday is coming up and is in like a month and a half! Not sure what I'm gonna do yet but I will soon :) So theres a mini update on me sorry its been so long!

Hello 2009

2009-01-01T16:51:00.001-08:00

What a beautiful day it was to start off the new year of 2009! The sun was shining, the sky blue and I woke up to a house with my friends, 2 chihuahua's and the sound of the ocean! Thank u Katelyn for having me house sit, love u! hahaha Its the start of a new year, a brand new start! I've never been one to make resolutions, but I have decided somethings out.
1. I will worry more about myself than others, try and make myself happy.
2. Love where I'm at in life, no matter what the circumstances are, I'm going to love it.
3. Be joyful, with God's help, trust me, I can be joyful in even the most dire of circumstances!
4. Make sure my friends know how much I love them and appreciate them! They mean more to me than almost anything and without them, I don't know what I would do.
5. Live, laugh, love!

Everyone deserves to be happy, joyful and respected. I love u all more than words can say and your friendships to me are more precious than rubies, thanks Ally for the reference! Please don't ever forget that I love u, and wish u nothing but the best! With all my love, Jillian

December

2008-12-20T13:59:00.000-08:00

So be proud this my second post in a month, so I am getting better! I went out on my fist date in pretty much ever, kinda sad but it was so much fun, we sat and talked for 7 hours. Ya we found stuff to talk about for that long, its so weird getting to know someone after being with someone else for so long. Some of my friends say they are proud but I'm not sure they really are. Kinda hard to explain but ya. My niece is getting more and more adorable as the days go on, and I love her more than anything! One of my besties Jenny comes in from Hawaii today and I am so excited to see her! But shes only here for like 2 weeks and then she goes back so her, Andrea, and I will be hanging out like non stop and having so much fun! So nothing really new to report, and hopefully I will have more next time!

ok so a lil late

2008-12-07T01:40:00.000-08:00

well a lot has been going on since my niece was born. She is absolutely the most beautiful little girl I have ever seen! She is absolutely perfect!!!! School is school and the semester is almost over. Oh I went on my first date this last week, the guy is so sweet and I am so not used to that! We shall c how that goes but so much is going on and so much fun is being had! Here r some pics of my beautiful niece!

How gorgeous is she?!!!!!!! Amazing!

Officially Auntie Jillian!

2008-10-22T10:34:00.000-07:00

Ok so I am now officially an aunt to an amazingly gorgeous baby girl name Brinkley Ann Cheo! She was born October 21, 2008 at 5:42 pm, 8lbs 5oz, 19 inches long. I could not be more excited or more proud! Katelyn is doing well, shes in pain but really who wouldn't be?! She did an amazing job and was such an amazing mom! I will post pics later but I had to post the most wonderful news in the world!!!!

Ok so I suck!

2008-09-23T23:50:00.000-07:00

Hahahaha I really suck at this updating my blog thing. Well its been another 2 months since my last post and its obviously way too long cause sooooooo much has happened! KK has not had her baby yet but she is very, very close to it, I just had my 22nd birthday and it was a blast! Randy and Melissa got married, and it was a gorgeous wedding btw! We had KK's baby shower which turned out fabulous, if I do say so myself! It was truly a shower fit for a celebrity! And she looked/looks absolutely amazing! She looks like she hasn't gained like any weight and she has this amazing glow about her!

Some incredibly fun times!

wow so long!

2008-07-14T11:09:00.000-07:00

Oh my goodness so so much has happened since my last post! I really need to get on here more often! I went to women's retreat the last week of May first weekend in August, and I had a blast! It was so nice just to get away and be with women that love Gods word and get to hang with some girlfriends too! Oh and my mommy! Shes so cute! It was such a blessing, oh and we met the speaker, she is the cutest I just wanna keep her!

So it was a blast, a weekend of rejuvination and those are some pics from it!

My last 2 months

2008-05-09T15:26:00.000-07:00

So its been like 2 months since I last posted and nothing really new is going on. My sister is over 4 months pregnant, and the cutest pregnant woman I've ever seen and I hate her for that! Ok just kidding Kay I love you! My buddy Bryan turned 21 last month so we went to BJ's for that and we all had a blast!

This is Bryan, I love this kid! No worries everyone, there is nothing going on there hes just my bud! But he did have a good time with all of us. Oh and he wasn't drunk he had 1 drink the whole night but let me just tell you, we are amazing especially when no alcohol is involved!
My house was tented for a couple days this week and I thought it was going to be horrible! Well it was but it was fun cause we stayed at Katelyn's house for a few days and I had so much fun. I had fun with my niece and nephew Biggie and D-D, who didn't warm up to me until the day I left but it was nice of Katelyn and Scott to let us stay at their house. I love my family, they are amazing!

Me

2008-03-14T11:40:00.000-07:00

Well my life is not very interesting, but its mine. I go to school, I work in a tax office and am really busy right now seeing as its tax season. I have spring break this coming and week, but no where to go because its tax season, and no breaks. Its ok though because I'm going to the beach and hanging out with friends. I love my family and friends more than life itself, and found out on Valentines day that I am going to be an aunt! It was the best news I had heard in a long time! Well hopefully next time I will have something more interesting to say, but for now, that is my life!